Saying Goodbye: Choosing between Cremation and Burial

By Cleo Funeral and Cremation Specialists
5 minute read
  • There's no "right" or "wrong" choice – the best decision is what feels meaningful to you and your family
  • Cremation has become increasingly popular, chosen by about 73% of Canadians
  • Your decision may be influenced by factors like flexibility, cost, personalization, and cultural background
  • Regional differences exist, with traditional burial still more common in some areas like Quebec
  • Whatever you choose, the most important thing is honoring your loved one in a way that brings you comfort
  • Writing a funeral announcement during a time of loss can feel overwhelming. This guide will help you create a thoughtful and informative announcement that honors your loved one while providing essential details to friends and family. We'll walk through the process step by step and provide examples you can adapt for your needs.


    Essential Elements to Include

    A complete funeral announcement typically includes several key pieces of information. Don't feel pressured to include everything – choose what feels right for your situation.


    Basic Information

    Start with the fundamentals: your loved one's full name, age, and date of passing. You might write: "John Robert Smith, age 75, passed away peacefully on January 12, 2025, surrounded by his loving family."


    Service Details

    Include the when, where, and what of the services. For example: "A celebration of life will be held Saturday, January 15, at 2:00 PM at Cedar Grove Community Church, 123 Main Street, Springfield."


    Personal Touch

    Add a brief personal note about your loved one. This might include their profession, passions, or impact on others: "John was a dedicated teacher who touched countless lives during his 30-year career at Springfield High School."


    Sample Announcement Templates

    Here are three different approaches you can adapt:

    1. Traditional Style

    "Mary Elizabeth Johnson, 68, of Riverside, passed away January 10, 2025. A funeral service will be held Wednesday, January 14, at 11:00 AM at Grace Memorial Chapel. Visitation hours are Tuesday from 4:00-7:00 PM. Mary leaves behind her loving husband James, three children, and five grandchildren who will miss her dearly."

    2. Brief Notice

    "With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Thomas Wright, 82. Services will be held Saturday at First Presbyterian Church at 1:00 PM. Reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations to the American Heart Association are appreciated."

    3. Celebration of Life

    "Join us in celebrating the remarkable life of Sarah Davis, who danced her way into heaven on January 8, 2025. A joyful memorial service will be held in her garden (52 Oak Lane) this Sunday at sunset. Bring your favorite memory to share."


    Tips for Different Platforms

    For Social Media

    Keep it concise but heartfelt. Include the most essential information and a photo if appropriate. Consider creating a Facebook event for the service to help with planning.

    For Email

    You can provide more details and include maps or directions. Consider using bullet points for key information to make it easy to read quickly.

    For Newspapers

    Check specific formatting requirements and word count limits. Most newspapers charge by the line, so be concise while including essential details.


    Special Considerations

    Virtual Services

    If including online options, provide clear instructions: "A live stream of the service will be available through [platform]. Access details will be sent to those who RSVP to [email]."

    COVID-19 Precautions

    If applicable, mention any health and safety requirements: "Face masks are available at the entrance. The chapel has been arranged to allow for comfortable distancing."

    Handling Specific Requests

    Be clear about family preferences:

    "In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to..."

    "The family welcomes flowers, or donations may be made to..."

    "Please share your memories of Robert at [memorial website]"


    Writing Style Tips

    Keep these guidelines in mind:

    • Use a respectful, warm tone
    • Be clear and concise
    • Check all dates, times, and addresses carefully
    • Include a contact person for questions
    • Consider including a meaningful quote or scripture if appropriate


    Common Phrases to Consider

    These traditional phrases can help you get started:

    "Passed away peacefully..."
    "Went to be with the Lord..."
    "Is now at rest..."
    "Surrounded by loving family..."


    Final Review Checklist

    Before sharing your announcement, verify:

    • All names are spelled correctly
    • Dates and times are accurate
    • Venue addresses are complete
    • Contact information is current
    • Special instructions are clear

    Remember, there's no single "right way" to write a funeral announcement. The most important thing is that it reflects your loved one and provides the information people need to pay their respects.


    Final Thoughts

    Whether you choose a traditional approach or something more personal, focus on creating an announcement that honors your loved one's memory while helping friends and family participate in saying goodbye.

    If you need assistance with funeral announcements or other arrangements, many funeral homes provide templates and guidance. Don't hesitate to ask for help during this difficult time.